I Heard My Husband Give My Bank PIN to His Mother — But Instead of Crying, I Smiled and Taught Them Both a Lesson They’ll Remember for the Rest of Their Lives. From the other side of our bedroom wall, I heard my husband’s whisper like a blade sliding out of a drawer: “Take it all. She’s got over a hundred and twenty in there.” He was giving my debit card PIN to his mother. I did not gasp. I smiled—small, invisible—and shut my eyes like I was asleep. My name is Mara Ellis, thirty-seven, senior ac